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Thank you for always taking the time to spell out the long-lasting and devastating effects of abuse, especially on us mums who are lucky to survive. To feel ‘seen’ makes such a difference because it is lonely and a relief when what is behind the brave face is acknowledged. I hope your health improves asap. Sending support and healing vibes and best wishes for a happy and healthy new year xx

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Thank you so much Anya. Wishing you a happy new year too, it's an honour to hear that my work helps survivors in this way.

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Dr. Emma Katz, thank you for your scholarly work that will help many Domestic Violence victim/survivors leave abusive relationships, and arm themselves with reliable information to provide to attorneys, courts, etc...to protect their children, and self. Again, thank you for your insight to the DV field, and psychology. I hope you feel better fast. Happy New year! Kind regards

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Thank you so much Joli. A Happy New Year to you too!

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Bless you Emma. I hope your health improves.

As a survivor cum advocate (20+ yrs I’ve been advocating) I have experienced burnout. It’s no fun! The worst episode lasted 9 months, and since then I have been having intermittent relapses but they don’t last as long, they usually lift after a few days. I hope you are not going to suffer burnout. I hope those close to you will gently advise you if they see symptoms of burnout developing.

I’m so glad you used to word “enormity” correctly. Many people misuse that word for anything enormous. The correct definition is:

1. the great or extreme scale, seriousness, or extent of something perceived as bad or morally wrong.

2. a grave crime or sin.

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Thank you so much Barbara. I try to use words with care and thank you for the positive feedback. Thanks too for your advice on rest. Yes, fortunately I do have someone close to me who helps me manage my situation, but I do have to be careful like you say.

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Thank you Emma for your work and your voice. I hope the new year brings you health 💕

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Thank you so much April, wishing you a happy new year too. Thank you for your support.

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